About the project inMentorship.com

The main objective of this project is to try to integrate biblical theology, trauma-informed psychology, attachment theory, personality studies, together with pastoral care into a cohesive and theologically grounded resource for Christian mentors, working with believers and church members who face challenges associated with personality disorders, particularly the dynamics of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). The author and moderator of the website invites Christian mentors, psychologists and counsellors to participate in the discussions, offer suggestions, critiques and relevant questions - using a comment block at the bottom of each page. With collaborative work, the project is hopefully to develop into a credible, rooted in Scripture and psychologically informed mentoring framework that can help Christian mentors in their work with individuals affected by emotional dysregulation, fragmented self-identity, and relational instability. Developed within trauma-informed theology, this initiative intends to help restore wholeness through divine grace and structured mentoring.

This project does not offer psychotherapy, psychological counselling, or any form of clinical advice, and none of the materials or recommendations provided here should be seen as such services. All content offered here is within Christian mentoring, a relational and non-clinical practice that seeks to assist and encourage personal growth, spiritual reflection, and discipleship through prayer, supportive conversation, biblical contemplation, and non-therapeutic guidance.

B/NPD – Borderline and Narcissistic Personality Disorders;

CAIs – Core-affected individuals;

RAIs – Relationally-affected individuals.